
Well believe it "tiredofscammers2" because I was one of those women you aren't judging. I am a very well educated woman who was not gullible as you suggest but simply believed in the power of a relationship that my scammer carefully cultivated for several weeks before making the money request. My scammer came from a paid site as well although not eHarmony. And I believe these dating scams would not be so lucrative if someone in our government, as well as, the countries these wastes of human space call home actually cared and made it the crime it is and prosecuted it like the crime it is. There are women who come on this site who are struggling emotionally and mentally with what happened to them and comments such as these will just make them feel worse about themselves.
Please be mindful of everyone on this site who has struggled with a romance scam - they are not gullible women - they were trusting souls with big hearts doing what they thought was best for the waste of human space that convinced them of their love.